alright.. uhh I have gone a little too mad over this. I don't think this person was trying to be homophobic or anything, just came off the wrong way. I'm pretty sure by "Isn't coming out dumb" he meant something like "Oh but being gay or something is okay, so why do people have to hide it from others?" not in a "grr closeting yourself is DUMB :rage:" way. I'm deeply sorry to the person that said this statement. I now know that what you mean is meant to be lighthearted and not rude. Next time, I won't make a big fuss about something as little as this, since it could get you and I into a trouble. again, please don't hate on him or harrass him.
