Definition: Term associated with challenging one's own romantic orientation as not personally helpful. It also can include not knowing one's romantic orientation or not wanting to define one's romantic orientation. Quoiromantic experiences may include: Being unsure what romantic attraction is, and therefore being unsure if one has experienced it or not. Finding the concept of romance to be inaccessible, inapplicable, or nonsensical. Being unable to understand romantic attraction as a concept or feeling. Disidentifying with the concept of romantic attraction - either as a social construct or as something potentially applicable to oneself. Questioning one's romantic identity for such a long time that the questioning itself becomes the identity, rather than a path toward any other more stable identity. Having a difficulty distinguishing romantic attraction from other types of attraction.
