My great grandpa was a very kind and understanding man who loved his koi fish and gardening, and hated it whenever the raccoons or the herons came and stole some of the koi. He understood that my sister felt like a girl instead of a boy and I'm pretty sure he would understand that I like girls. He always enjoyed when we came over to California to see him and would pay for our plane trips there. He was a wonderful, kind and funny man. It was his time and he knew he would be alright. May God take care of his soul =)