Note #1. If you're transphobic please leave! This wasn't easy, and I don't need transphobes to add to that. If you're transphobic and you're following me, please unfollow. I don't need that negativity - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Hi my Gems! Recently, you might have seen that I updated my about me with a pronoun change to she/they. Yes, I was going by she/her. Today I wanted to share the reasons behind that change, and how it's going to play a role in how you refer to me. The main reason I changed my pronouns, was simply because I disliked the pronoun "her". Don't ask me why I wish I could tell you XD. The pronoun her feels wrong, almost as if it's to thick. I've also always found she/they pronouns aesthetically pleasing, and I think the reason for this was because it removed the "her" from the set of pronouns I preferred. I know everyone interprets she/they pronouns differently, but personally I like being referred to as "she" and using "their" instead of "her". For example: Instead of: "Oh! @squeaks1? I really like her projects!" You can use: "Oh! @squeaks1? I really like their projects!" This really just makes me feel so much more comfortable, and I'd really appreciate it if you'd use she/they to refer to me <33. In regards to gender... unfortunately I haven't a clue lol. I'm not 100% sure if I'm cis or not, it can depend on the day but it's only small changes though. For example, there will be day's when I want to go for more of the androgynous vibe, but then there are days when I'm down for the cisgender female vibes. What I do know though is that my pronouns are she/they. Yes, this sTuFF is complicated. Yes, I'm young. Yes, a pronoun is just a word to replace a noun. Yes, gender is a social construct. But I know me, and I know my pronouns. - Grace (she/they)
