yes I’m fine just wanted to say this :) also please read this whole thing it could change so much with you or maybe not, it definitely helped me grow as a person. so yesterday I realised that you don’t always have to do stuff for other people, and more do stuff for yourself. Like that may sound selfish in some situations, but in others it could be better just to put yourself first and really know yourself and your limits. Like don’t always do stuff to impress people if what you’re doing isn’t the best thing to do, or if you want want to do something you think will impress other people than don’t do it. like really put yourself first and even with like fitness and stuff always put yourself first to make you a better, happier person. get what I mean? Kinda? also, you don’t always have to say yes and you don’t always have to accept everything And Your feelings are valid and you have all rights to feel what you feel in every situation And Don’t always live up to someone’s expectations of you and don’t let them get into you and manipulate you to be how they want you to be, to be a version of you that you’re not. bc that’s fake and toxic And I’m saying all bc I was so bothered on what people thought of me instead of how I wanted to be treated, especially in 2018 and the first half of 2019, two of my friends kicked my best friend out of my friend group, and looking back, if I could go back in time and change one thing I would walk away from those two friends with my best friend but I didn’t bc I was afraid of what those other friends would think of me. and then in the middle of 2019 I really learnt how to take control and I stood up for myself for fake friends and that’s something I wanted to do for so long and I hadn’t done it because I didn’t want them to be hurt but they were bringing me down all the time. If you let people walk over you that’s not very healthy for you mentally, and if people see you as someone too nice you could end up being used and manipulated to benefit something else And with fake friends, if you’re holding on to them and you both know it’s fake or toxic or maybe just you know and truly want new friends, then stand up for yourself and go find new friends, you don’t grow until you let go of some things and sometimes those things could be stopping you from growing so you have to let go of them. just know and realise it’s normal to let go of people. Picture a rocket; a rocket can only get from earth to space by letting parts of it detach and fall off, because they’re keeping it from going up to space, and knowing that really really helped me sorry I’m rambling this is just something I’m really passionate about if you have any questions, please please please let me know
