Just look
This reminds me of my two oc's: Thorntail and Dotfur. When Thorntail becomes a warrior, Dotfur asks him if he wants to be her mate, but Thorntail knows that she is already seeing Goldenstrike as a mate option. This is there meeting place when they talk about it and eventually Thorntail mates with Dotfur's sister, Amberlight while Dotfur stays single for a while until she warms up to Goldenstrike even more to the point when she wants to be his mate.