I'm so done. For context my parents are divorced and both have found someone else. However, both pairs argue a lot. But my mom and her boyfriend do it so much to the point where it's not a normal argument, they are just not compatible. My mom asked a simple question, and her boyfriend went off about how dumb the question was. And then she kept correcting herself, and he just started yelling saying "Just admit you asked a stupid question! You're insecure!" When he knows for a fact that it wasn't a stupid question and that he's the insecure one because he can't admit to LITERALLY ANYTHING HE DOES WRONG. Whenever someone does something wrong, he will talk to you for hours about it and I'm not even joking. He's a smart guy, he really is, but he uses it to his advantage and he's so stuck up sometimes that he has to have the perfect things said to him in order for him to understand, or else he'll be up your butt for it. And the worst part is that my mom had literally JUST got home from a one and a half hour work meeting. And through the whole thing, he was raising his voice and she was speaking at a quieter volume. And then he starts stomping around going off about how stupid my mom is. This happens almost every day, some fights are small and some are big. Almost every single one is about communication, because apparently everything in that field has to be perfect. And I have to listen from my room. At least with my dad and step mom, they keep it quiet in their room and it happens way less often. And I can always tell when an argument is going to happen, because every little thing that goes even slightly wrong, my mom's boyfriend turns into an argument. I can tell everyone's mood in my household because of the way they walk, do things, talk, and just the general atmosphere of the room. He's a hypocrite at this point considering the fact that he literally asks the stupidest questions seeing as they were JUST answered, and he has a big ego even though he says he doesn't. I am so tired of this. And in one particular argument, he had the audacity to say that me and my sister act like this affects us so much. YES. IT. DOES. You are literally there screaming at the top of your lungs so that the neighbors can hear, and WE'RE not affected by it? Be so for real with me right now. He said that we only go into our rooms to be on our computers and use them as a fake coping mechanism and that we act all depressed and misunderstood. He knows for a fact that we're not depressed and that we don't act like it for quirks and attention. I just want it to stop. I want my mom to do the yelling and not him for once. I threw my gumdrop NEE DOH squishy at the wall twice and it hit pretty loud.
I would have posted this on bandlab but my dad is following me there now so I have to be careful what I post. You can vent here if you want :) im okay guys its nothing i can control
