I may or may not have randomly gotten into watching Dubbed Manga RomComs- BUT I HAVE A REASON! In my Real Talks with Myskit 1 I talked about how I struggle with love and romance because I want a real, genuine, non-cliche relationship, but nobody else by age does Well, these dubbed manga's legit are all about that They're the kind of stories I can't help but smile too because of how the guys in them are just good people, like the kind of guy I legit fantasize of being, kind, innocent, genuine, and loving. It's also not full or overly- sus- relationships, it's all just like, actual romance, and- idk- it's just nice- Some of them are so cute- and they have a certain pattern too- MC does something morally straight and admirable in the presence of a female that they know, but usually not well. To their own shock, because they are humble and think actually fairly low of themselves, that female develops feelings for them. Because of that, she seeks more time with him and they get to know each other, and he eventually developed mutual feelings. They then confess their love and begin their relationship, communicating positively, and getting married or whatever. Honestly that sequence of events is highly appealing to my less-monkey-brain teenager- like- the genuine nature is just so- endearing- and the stories are usually super cute And I mean sure they are SUPER cringe and REALLY low quality, but like, there's a part of me thats like, you know what- I kinda want that- A nice, mutually respectful, loving, genuine relationship Which is why I've resulted to watching a ton of these, because Teenagers are dumb. (I also have suspicion a girl I liked that tried reaching out to me is being manipulated. But that's a different story-)
Something serious below \/ And I mean serious I do kinda want to talk about this- because I am genuinely worried- A girl I liked- and liked me mind you- a few years ago is dating this guy- totally normal- Well, she emailed me not that long ago (Because we mostly talk through emails) telling me that the last message she sent, which was about an offer for her join my band, that the "No" I had received was not from her, but her BOYFRIEND. Which like, that's 100% weird. I know for a FACT if I was dating a girl I would NOT be going through and policing her emails, that's MEGA manipulative Well, she said that and that she would be down to join the band, which is normal, but then after like 5 replies back and forth and a few days, she tells me she changed her mind and doesn't want to. I asked if we could stay friends because despite the fact I'm 100% over her she's still nice, she said she didn't want to because of her boyfriend, which I don't know who he is, but I have reason to believe the same guy from before manipulated her into getting back with him. If he's going through her emails, why not? I tried to question her to see if it's her answering or him, but they aren't replying. What do I do?? Whatever is going on, it's not good, and I know for a fact if it turns to a fight, I'll probably lose. Not that I couldn't fight, more that I wouldn't be able to muster it- I'm not a fighter, despite the fact I could be. I could be dangerous- and I don't want to sound like a psycho or anything but like- I could fight. I could. I could win. Unless he was much bigger. Even some of my bigger friends I could beat in a fight. And not to mention, I know self defense. I would not even dream of being an instigator. But like- Should I confront her about it? I don't get why that would be weird, I have no romantic feelings for her in any way anymore, so why would it be weird if I'm just looking out for her? I would hate for somebody I'd *like* to consider a friend to be controlled- Then again, what if I'm wrong? It would ruin any chance at repairing a relationship with her- at least it probably would- I don't know- But also, what if I'm RIGHT, but the guy turns out to either be a massive dude or have massive friends, and if he's willing to push her around, why not jump me? Like I said I could fend for myself- but like- if a group came up- I would be screwed- my only hope would be to carry something on me but that's like- super illegal- If I'm like- fearing for my personal safely would that be different? I'm legitimately scared. I want to try and figure out what's going on, but at the same time, I don't- It feels like the right thing to do- if she's being controlled, than I would rather help her out- but the only real problem- I have to way to contact her. I don't remember her phone number, she won't reply to emails, and I never see her in person. Honestly, it's just all a lot. If you're reading this- I could use some guidance-
