bro i thought my mom was respecting my pronouns for a second (i havent come out to her yet sooo) and like she was talking to me about my cat and she was like "talk to her--- i mean talk to him" and i genuinely thought she was talking to my cat asking my cat to talk to me and like she was correcting herself on my pronouns and then she said again "talk to him" and then i realized she wanted m e to talk to him cries