"But Sake, aren't you agender/(technically) genderfluid?" Yeah, but most days, I don't feel like a girl or a woman. That's transexual: not being the gender you were originally. I'm still flip-flopping between what pronouns work for me and what identity works for me. Granted, it was only like a year or so ago that I started questioning my identity, but I know for a fact that I am NOT a female. I always felt uncomfortable being called she/her since I was about 11 (14 now). I'm still heavily questioning things and nothing is set in stone for me. I'm looking for what gender identity works best for me, but for now, what I've found is that it changes every day. Very rarely female, but usually male/non-binary/no gender at all. Why am I telling you this? I just want to tell people out there that it's okay to not have a fixed gender on one specific identity. If you've gotten to the point of questioning, you know that you aren't your original gender, or at least there's more to you, and that's the first step! But finding who you are is a completely different hurdle that's extremely tough to climb over. Stay strong out there! (And yes I'm posting this at 4:14 AM CST. Hushhhh)
