As much as people don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings most of the time, this so-called "joke" is/can be somewhat offensive. I know that people like to joke around and what-not, but this can hurt people, even if they know that you were just joking. If you use this as a joke, please be more cautious of how other people feel and only use it as a joke if the other person is fine with it, if the person is not then don't say things like this. I hope you have a nice day/night.